Why does he prefer to stalk me instead of just being with me in person more?

I know my emails have been hacked by his satan loving room mates, I know hes been listening to convos Ive been having with my friends inside msn messenger and I KNOW even though I've tried to set up my own private account here to ask questions annonomously I know he has found this one as well and will most likely be able to see this question. I dont into his life, I understand whats going on with us, most of the time but he refuses to stop listening to the idiots who are hell bent on destroying my life WITHOUT CAUSE!! They convinced him in the past I stalked him when it was clear that wasnt happening.. Then when their friend they tried to set me up with to keep me away from my friend who WANTS to be with me, S me and I CALL HIM ON IT, they flat out call all out war on me! Why wont he just think for himself and stop being controlled by them? What he and I do or dont do SHOULD be between us and us ALONE!!! And if one of us has questions we can set up annon accounts such as this one to ask strangers or people who arent in our circle whatsoever! But even then it should be OUR choice to be friends/ enemies/ bf/gf/ lovers, married or dead for cryin out loud!!! wdf?? If he was closer to me in person and more often he wouldnt feel the need to stalk me to try and prove his room mates right.. that I MUST be crazy and un trustworthy! THEY are keeping him from being happy and because they know I love him and want him to be happy on all levels, that just pisses them off and makes them pull this shitee more often! GOD I HATE EVIL PEOPLE!! I WONT but into his life unless he WANTS me there, I DONT betray his trust PERIOD! And I dont want to know anything unless HE WANTS to tell me! Why doesnt he flip the switch on them and open his eyes to THEIR deciet?? Then he wouldnt feel the need to stalk me anymore because he would see with his own eyes the amazing friend, person and lover Ive always been to him!